It is Sunday afternoon on my off weekend and I feel the anxiety building up. In about an hour I have the dreaded pick up time where the kids come back home from being with the X a few days. Every time I have to gear up for the awkward ten minute exchange I instantly … Continue reading The Dreaded Custody Handoff
I can't help but compare online dating to job searching. The parallels are unavoidable and the longer you are out there searching the less personal it becomes. Just as you start to forget the companies and positions you apply for, you forget who you swipe right on, who's profile you like, or who you start … Continue reading Strategies to Online Dating
Logging on to different dating websites can open your eyes to many new things which usually leaves me feeling old or inexperienced. And sometimes it can make you lose all faith in men and women- like when you see that profile of just a guy's body and a caption that says "married and looking to … Continue reading Open Relationships: Yay or Nay?
I am coming up on a year since I have been separated from the X - six months divorced. I had my own ideas of what divorced couples go through and made my own judgments. Now I see that I had no idea what someone goes through when they get divorced. But just like when … Continue reading The misconceptions of a divorcee
I first mentioned my rule: Never trust a guy with only selfies in my post Online Dating 101. What I failed to do is take my own advice. See I was thinking that a man who only has selfies may not have a lot of friends, or he may be vain, or he may be … Continue reading Never Trust a Guy Who Only Has Selfies!
It has been 2 months since I met my Colombian man, as I now to refer to him to most of my friends. We talk everyday, we say loving things to each other and we miss each other like crazy. I recently went to Florida to visit him for a few days and am hosting … Continue reading Long Distance Dating
My entire year has been a series of milestones to changing my life and the start of this month I hit another one. When I first separated from the X, I tried to stay focused on some of the positive things. I do this with most things actually, as a way to keep going through … Continue reading A new milestone