I dread this question. You match with a guy online based on nothing but some pictures and a brief glimpse into the best qualities they believe they possess. Then you have a 2 minute conversation about your weekend or how your work day is going then they hit you with the question "so what are … Continue reading When is it appropriate to ask “What are you looking for?”
I can't help but compare online dating to job searching. The parallels are unavoidable and the longer you are out there searching the less personal it becomes. Just as you start to forget the companies and positions you apply for, you forget who you swipe right on, who's profile you like, or who you start … Continue reading Strategies to Online Dating
Logging on to different dating websites can open your eyes to many new things which usually leaves me feeling old or inexperienced. And sometimes it can make you lose all faith in men and women- like when you see that profile of just a guy's body and a caption that says "married and looking to … Continue reading Open Relationships: Yay or Nay?
I first mentioned my rule: Never trust a guy with only selfies in my post Online Dating 101. What I failed to do is take my own advice. See I was thinking that a man who only has selfies may not have a lot of friends, or he may be vain, or he may be … Continue reading Never Trust a Guy Who Only Has Selfies!
It has been 2 months since I met my Colombian man, as I now to refer to him to most of my friends. We talk everyday, we say loving things to each other and we miss each other like crazy. I recently went to Florida to visit him for a few days and am hosting … Continue reading Long Distance Dating
Since my last post about setting new standards in the dating world, I have learned a few things. (1) When you start to believe something, it can hold true, (2) ask and you shall receive, and (3) getting to know someone before you sleep with them is overrated. Ok...that last one may be a little … Continue reading A Latin Fantasy
When I was in my early college years my expectations for dating were very simple. On the surface I wanted someone cute, super fun, and could stay out and drink all night with me. If we were going to actually date he would have to be someone who valued family. This description at the age … Continue reading Setting a Standard