A few months ago I blogged about the struggle of opening up and letting my guard down for the first time in a while. It was scary and exciting and I jumped in with two feet. I not only was open in telling this person how I felt about him, but I actually allowed myself … Continue reading When is it Time to Walk Away?
When I was a young girl I was a very emotional person. I had no shame in saying or feeling anything that came to me. I was often labeled "too emotional" by many family members especially my older brothers - although they were just trying to get out of trouble for the endless teasing. Fights … Continue reading Letting Your Guard Down: A frightening tale
When I was first introduced to the idea of open relationships my position was pretty strong that it wasn't for me. As I state in my post Open Relationships: Yay or Nay? that while I am good with the idea of being on the outside of one, being in one was simply not for me. … Continue reading Open relationships: Re-evaluated
I dread this question. You match with a guy online based on nothing but some pictures and a brief glimpse into the best qualities they believe they possess. Then you have a 2 minute conversation about your weekend or how your work day is going then they hit you with the question "so what are … Continue reading When is it appropriate to ask “What are you looking for?”
I can't help but compare online dating to job searching. The parallels are unavoidable and the longer you are out there searching the less personal it becomes. Just as you start to forget the companies and positions you apply for, you forget who you swipe right on, who's profile you like, or who you start … Continue reading Strategies to Online Dating
Logging on to different dating websites can open your eyes to many new things which usually leaves me feeling old or inexperienced. And sometimes it can make you lose all faith in men and women- like when you see that profile of just a guy's body and a caption that says "married and looking to … Continue reading Open Relationships: Yay or Nay?
I first mentioned my rule: Never trust a guy with only selfies in my post Online Dating 101. What I failed to do is take my own advice. See I was thinking that a man who only has selfies may not have a lot of friends, or he may be vain, or he may be … Continue reading Never Trust a Guy Who Only Has Selfies!